Growing up, listening to stories from my grandparents and parents was one of my favorite pass times and would advocate the importance of storytelling to children from a very young age.
In good old days, my mother used to lie beside me and narrate to me a story of a strong princess who defeated thousands of warriors in battle and how I used to build my own stories around listening to her. How fascinated I was about becoming strong and conquering the world. I remember my grandmother narrating few stories of righteous people and these stories made me what I am today as they helped me to learn very important lessons of life.
I remember how stories of Vikram and Betaal et al use to excite me and over a period of time made me more resourceful and responsible. Most stories taught how Good always defeated the Bad.
With technology evolving at every step and with a culture of nuclear families, children spend most of their time with smartphone and tablets. We have applications that can help us monitor what children watch and can keep track of their every move but nothing can replace those amazing moments.
How visual effects have taken front seat
Storytelling for children has considerably reduced since visual effects introduced by technology have been introduced which are definitely more engaging. Most parents hand over tablets or smartphones to children to spend their time but it is not the same as storytelling. An education consultant, says, “Storytelling is an interactive activity but on digital mediums it becomes a one-way thing where someone is telling you what to think and showing you an image that they think is appropriate.
Thanks to this, a child’s brain becomes a dumping ground because you stop using your imagination and your thinking powers by relying only on what is being spoon-fed to you.” She states that digital storytelling is less humane. Talking about how the art of storytelling has changed over the years, she explains, “Many parents feel that showing stories on the Internet is as good as narrating them, but storytelling is about interacting with another human being and using one’s imagination to visualize.”
Importance of Storytelling
Introduction to new vocabulary
One of the importance of storytelling to children is that listening to stories enhances vocabulary. My son is 3 years old and has learnt new words because of the stories I narrate. Sometime he gets curious and tries to learn more about the words that come out of my mouth. Best part is that he remembers most of the words and retains them.
Helps children learn
With different stories children tend to learn more about sounds, words and language. This enhances learning skills and increases their absorption power. Most children remember stories since they love them. Storytelling is an art and if done with modulation can excite a child’s mind thus gaining full attention.
Enhances listening
While listening to a story your child get engaged and learns to listen to you. While growing up, storytelling encourages and enhances the listening skills of children. When a habit of listening to stories is inculcated in them, they learn to become better listeners. It provides them the necessary training to listen and understand more, instead of talking.
Introduce your culture and values
Storytelling for children can play an important role is transforming a child’s perspective. It could help you pass on your values and thoughts to your child in a simpler way. You could narrate stories that can allow your child to learn more about your culture and its various intricacies. During Diwali, I created a story through which my son learned about the essence of the festivals and why we celebrate Diwali. Now he tells this story to anyone who will listen to him.
Innovation and skills expansion
Through story telling you could introduce innovation. My son would listen to a story at night and the next day will come up with a new drawing or would create something new using his building kits that would relate to something we discussed yesterday.
Encourage emotional development
Storytelling for children is a great way to enhance emotions of your children. A Story could actually run them though different emotions and this eventually makes them strong and help them understand their various emotions.
Bedtime Stories
I am sure most of us would have seen Bedtime Stories (an Adam Sandler movie). It is one of my favorites. Storytelling for children could be a great way for you to bond with your child and making it a routine during bedtime could be a great ritual. Even if you are working, a small bed time story can allow you to connect with your child. Any child would love to spend this time and cherish these memories.
And you never know your stories can become real and you might get a Ferrari for freeeeeeeeee (you have to watch the movie to get this reference)!!
Reduces TV and smartphone time
Most children are addicts and spend most of their time with tablets and TV. Most parents complain about children spending too much time. Storytelling could help reduce binge watching. My child loves to listen to stories and loves spending his day drawing characters from the stories. A story can also be used as a bargaining instrument once your child gets addicted to it. Like if my child misbehaves his story time is reduced by 10 minutes.
Storytelling is the most powerful way to put ideas into the world today – Robert Mckee
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Time to relax from hectic schedule
A storytelling time could be a time when you could relax after a hectic schedule and spend some time as a family. Some days you could ask your child to narrate you a story. This would not only enhance his imagination but also confidence.
Importance of storytelling to child development
Storytelling is an important part of children’s development. It helps them learn how to tell a story and use language in different ways. It also helps them develop their narrative skills and understanding of cause and effect. Storytelling also helps children understand emotions and feelings. So, it’s very important for kids to be exposed to stories as early as possible! Some have suggested that storytelling skills are actually more developed in adults than in children.
While there could be some truth to that, it’s still clear that kids need to hear more stories from trusted adults than they do from peers or strangers. If you want your child to become a great storyteller, start by sharing some favorite books with them. Reading together is also a great way for parents and kids to connect.
This is so nice. I’m not a good story teller but I love to read. However my dad tells some of the best stories bc he love to talk. These times are truly precious.
I believe our children are missing all the fun of storytelling we use to have in our own times. My grandparents were great storytellers and they used to tell the best stories of their times and we use to listen to their stories even we have listened to them nay times. Some stories were fiction but most of the stories were real facts and nonfiction. Yes, our children need the same and thanks for sharing them importance
I don’t know who enjoys story time more – me or my son! It’s such an important part of our day. I hope he cherishes it in years to come.
Oh I love this! Yeah story telling to children is very important!
I could not agree with this more. story telling to children is super important for their communication and development skills x
This is so true. I remember growing up and my grandparents telling me stories. Brings back great memories for me.
enhancing listening is a great factor that I never thought of so far! You are so right!
I always loved storytelling sessions as a kid. That’s when I get to imagine being in the story myself. As an adult now, I love telling stories to kids and enjoy looking at the exciting looks on their faces.
Those expressions are priceless 🙂
We read with our boys every night before bed. They each get to pick out one book, then my oldest son has his “take-home-reader” that he has to read for kindergarten. My husband and I just started reading Harry Potter to my oldest son, too. So we do a lot of reading here!
Oh! i love Harry Potter. My son is too young for it now. We also read to our son at bedtime and it is great routine.
One of the things that I love most about storytelling is how it can improve my sons imagination. When I tell him a story he likes to retell it after I do. I love hearing how it evolves and changes and how he interprets my story.
This is great
With the rise of audiobooks I think storytelling is easier than it has ever been because now you can share your favorite stories especially when they are age appropriate with them right away. I totally agree storytelling is so important and I love your points.
I have the same belief as you! My grandparents used to tell the best stories that sparked imagination and appreciation for good story-telling. Many life lessons and bonding took place from my grandma telling my brother and I thought provoking stories. I love to pass that on to my kiddos ; )
Some of my favourite memories from when I was younger were from my parents reading stories to me. As a literature student now, I really appreciate how important storytelling to young children is too!
Literature is difficult girl! your rock
We do storytelling either with books or random made-up stories. I think it helps our little one develop communication skills. Do you have favorite books?
I write my own stories and will be working on collating these stories for a book. Once publish will share it
We do storytelling either with books or random made-up stories. I think it helps our little one develop communication skills
Stories are important for kids to build up memory, communication skills and set a bound. I used to love it when my mother or father told me stories, best part of the day!
Story telling to young children helps build their interest in reading and love for books. My parents did the same thing when I was growing up. Every night, I looked forward to those bonding moments with my mom and a good book. I continued the habit and did the same with my own kids.
I grew up reading bible stories with my mom. She also tells some bedtime stories when we we’re kids. It’s one of the experiences I will always remember. I plan to do the same for my future kids.
Not sure about the new generations but I definitely remember how important stories were for me as a kid and much they helped develop my imagination and creativity! Glad to read that the tradition of storytelling is maintained and encouraged 🙂
Storytelling is so important and something that children will always remember. I still remember my great-grandmothers stories she would tell me when I was a kid.
this is such a lovely memory. My grandma used to read books to me